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Whoa, here she comes…

Question:

hi rebecca well, i can sorta relate to what you are saying… Don’t get the "lots of guys" thing the wrong way. I’m not a slut by any stretck, but I can see how in the past I will reduce myself to constant flirting, and sometimes lead guys to believe that there is something there that may happen and it’s pure and true, when in all actuality it’s me seducing them in a way, to kind of ensure the fact that someone will always be there.

nod nod. i know that i flirt very easily and i hate myself for it. i can get so wrapped up in the flirting process, that the guy thinks that there is something between us, while all i like is the "rush" of the "game" of life. sorry if that sounds perverted. but i like knowing that someone out there wants to be with me (emotionally) i think i have hurt a great deal of people IMHO, and i feel like such a bad person for doing that. All of my friends are guys, I’ve lost friends in the past to this behavior, and that is Nick’s reservoir of info on the" maneater."

well, not all, but i would say 95% of my friends are guys. i have about 4 good friends, one of them is very good, who sticks by my side always. i am eternally grateful for that, and return the favor whenever i can. So I guess I feel a low self worth, and maybe I think the only quality I possess is……hmmm….of aesthitic value??? No not even. here I go analyzing myself again. It all just comes down to the fact that I ddeserve people. I cheat in the game of life by using the woman card alone…alone..

i know that i use the "woman card" (good expression) very, very often. i am definitly not a feminist. i like it when i am made special by small things like gifts, opening doors and such. and i very often press on someone to get what i want by using the power of the flirt. god, i sound like such a "b". Does this make an ounce of sense??? Someone please confirm the fct that I’m a shitty human being. R.

well, i don’t consider this shitty. even if it is, i am in the same boat as you are. and it makes perfect sense for me.            r  a  v  e  n           /      __  /    ——      / /     (  )/    —–     //////   ‘ / `   —    //// / // :    : —   // /   /  /`    ’–  //          //..         ====UU====UU====               ”“

Response:

Inherently, there is nothing wrong with flirting.  I love to flirt, and i love the art of it…the whole cat and mouse game.  I don’t think of it as using someone.  Yes, you are doing it in a way to make you feel better about yourself…but you’re doing it in a way that also makes someone else feel better about himself.

That’s ok as far as it goes but I’d suggest that it can look quite different from the perspective of the "mouse" in the game than the "cat". Not to mention the bystanders who are also affected by the whole slimazel. — Chris

Response:

(@tikva)) spake thusly: Inherently, there is nothing wrong with flirting.  I love to flirt, and i love the art of it…the whole cat and mouse game.  I don’t think of it as using someone.  Yes, you are doing it in a way to make you feel better about yourself…but you’re doing it in a way that also makes someone else feel better about himself. That’s ok as far as it goes but I’d suggest that it can look quite different from the perspective of the "mouse" in the game than the "cat". Not to mention the bystanders who are also affected by the whole slimazel.

See, that’s the thing…when flirting is at its most pure as pure sport, there is no difference between cat and mouse.  You can be at once predator and prey. As for the bystanders…i’m not flirting with them, am i?  They just have to wait their turn like everyone else.   Viq (yes, that was tongue-in-cheek) Viq (Vauxhall) Official ASD Flirt

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