My precious rape experience…

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thats all I can hear from the whining rapees in here.

oh my. I uh… hmmm… you suck. and I’m picturing all the "whining rapees" here having you in a room for a bit and you deserving every pounding you get. several of these "whining rapees" here are some of my best friends. I know its not whats being said but thats the way I’m hearing

it. that’s your fault, me boyo. Why do you all hold on so tightly to your rape.

you better start holding on tightly to something else. I reckon its a kind of security blanket….a treasured thumb to be sucked on at will. This attitude does’nt help.

but you do. ooh… I’m just getting madder now. yeah, I know you posted this just to be controversial and to draw out enraged reactions. but… geez you’re mean. mean is never good. Brian rapist but for the therapy.

that must be the new "asshole" therapy I’ve heard so much about. * Sent from RemarQ http://www.remarq.com The Internet’s Discussion Network * The fastest and easiest way to search and participate in Usenet – Free!

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I don’t hold on to my rape ‘like a security blanket’, someone posted and asked if anyone has been raped, that’s all. I was also molested by my father and older brother, deep down inside I hope they burn in hell (sorry for the language)….but no I don’t try and dwell on my rape and being molested…..I’m sorry I must be confused, I thought this support group was here for everyone to talk about depression, things that make us depressed, etc…. ~Lady Angela

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – thats all I can hear from the whining rapees in here. I know its not whats being said but thats the way I’m hearing it. Why do you all hold on so tightly to your rape. I reckon its a kind of security blanket….a treasured thumb to be sucked on at will. This attitude does’nt help. Brian rapist but for the therapy.

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actually when you have to listen to the whining…that’s the letting go part. have you ever had a guy force his dick up your ass? i wonder how long it would take you to even be able to discuss it… thats all I can hear from the whining rapees in here. I know its not whats being said but thats the way I’m hearing it. Why do you all hold on so tightly to your rape. I reckon its a kind of security blanket….a treasured thumb to be sucked on at will. This attitude does’nt help. Brian rapist but for the therapy.

* Sent from RemarQ http://www.remarq.com The Internet’s Discussion Network * The fastest and easiest way to search and participate in Usenet – Free!

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thats all I can hear from the whining rapees in here. I know its not whats being said but thats the way I’m hearing it. Why do you all hold on so tightly to your rape. I reckon its a kind of security blanket….a treasured thumb to be sucked on at will. This attitude does’nt help. Brian rapist but for the therapy.

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How can you say this stuff to the women who have been raped? How do you know that you wouldn’t have acted the same ways those rapists act if you hadn’t gotten sex so "easily"? You know, it is very convenient for a guy to order a drink for a girl, drop the "date-rape drug" in her glass w/out her noticing. Then he rapes her. The drug sends a woman into a comatose-like state. You can’t respond to anything. You could die.

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – cus it never stops happening. it doesnt happen once and never again. its never going to stop. cus theres assholes out there like you. Thar ya go Panster….makin generalisations. I have never even looked at a woman rapaciously in my life. Never had to really.All the women in my life gave it up wholeheartedly. And guess what…if they had’nt I would have accepted that cheerfully. You must stop knitting your personal hurt into a scarf and then trodding on it. Brian

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AMEN to that!!!

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – actually when you have to listen to the whining…that’s the letting go part. have you ever had a guy force his dick up your ass? i wonder how long it would take you to even be able to discuss it… thats all I can hear from the whining rapees in here. I know its not whats being said but thats the way I’m hearing it. Why do you all hold on so tightly to your rape. I reckon its a kind of security blanket….a treasured thumb to be sucked on at will. This attitude does’nt help. Brian rapist but for the therapy. * Sent from RemarQ http://www.remarq.com The Internet’s Discussion Network * The fastest and easiest way to search and participate in Usenet – Free!

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[Funny how I never noticed your appreciation of my posts before. Were you hindered in some way and could'nt express it?] Sheesh Brian

Funny. You’re an enigma, Brian… yet… I see you so clearly. More clearly than most people I see here.

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"femboy" hehe! good one. that hurts about as much as when I was called "bicycle boy" were you really called that? I don’t mean to pump you.

yup! sure was. And I sat back here at my PC. "bicycle boy?" this is an INSULT? might as well call me "oxygen breathing boy" hehe!

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Oh, my precious obnoxious troll experience. That’s all I hear from the little troll boys whining about how we all don’t worship their brilliant insights into other peoples’ lives. Why do you hold on so tightly to your role as rude arrogant pricks who relishes the idea that they have to change their screen name every few days just to get through all the filters set up by people with better things to do with their lives. I reckon it’s a kind of security blanket, hiding in their rooms, a treasured sanctuary from having to relate to people with anything close to sincerity. And I do know what is being said here. -cg troll but for the humanity

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did I hear a squeak? take it to alt.support.rape.victim.in.perpetuum

I don’t understand why your fondness for spewing at people is any different than what you seem to be accusing rape victims of doing. You’ve wrapped yourself in this safe little blanket of nastiness. I guess It’s probably a lot easier than having to engage in a real conversation with someone, which is a shame, because when you do, you usually have some pretty interesting things to say. Kelly [For your convenience here's a special little place for you to insert your predictable venomous reply. I promise to be morbidly wounded by it for at least ten minutes.]

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Christy can’t ignore it cos theres an element of truth in it. he’s nice that way..if a little naive.

I’ve noticed that when you want to insult or attack a guy, you call them by a girl’s name or attribute to them some aspect of femininity. Why do you think you do that? Anyway, Brian, I’ve read enough of your posts to know that you’re an intelligent guy, and that sometimes the points you make are worthy of taking a careful, close look. In the recent threads about writing ability, for instance, I *did* think that a number of people read a lot into what you said, things which you didn’t say, and that that was unfair to you. What I don’t understand is why you *must* ask your questions, or make your points, in a manner intended to offend or provoke sharp response. As you put it in a response to me earlier today regarding a generalization about men that I found offensive, "I’d rather provoke these ninnys." Why is that? There are interesting issues behind your original post in this thread: whether or how it serves one to let go of a trauma, versus holding on to it; the process one must go through to let go; and so forth. I think those topics are well worthy of discussion. If your original post had been phrased something like: I’ve been reading the posts by rape survivors about their experiences, and I have a question. To me, it seems like in many cases, people find it difficult to let go of their anger and hurt. That’s understandable; rape is a very, very traumatic experience. But I’ve always thought that letting go of such negative emotions is eventually necessary for healing. Do you think I’m wrong? If I’m right, what’s involved in getting to the point where you can let go? Is talking about your experiences like this a part of that process? Yes, I know I’m long-winded. But the point is, if you’d said something like this, I bet the response you would have gotten would have been markedly different. But you simply don’t like to post that way. You probably see what I wrote above as obsequious; to me, it’s just showing respect. And that’s the thing that comes out of your posts, at least for me: the impression that you don’t respect anyone. Several times I’ve seen you make points that I agreed with, but had trouble telling you so because you went out of your way to make your point in a hurtful manner. I just don’t see the point; I don’t see why it’s not worthwhile to treat people with some respect. -c — Chris Metzler Work Address: Harvard-Smithsonian Center 617-496-3259 (office) for Astrophysics (remove "snip-me." to email, of course) Cambridge, MA 02138 USA "As a child I understood how to give; I have forgotten this grace since I have become civilized." – Chief Luther Standing Bear

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Fuck you.

refreshingly concise for you dear. :0)

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….aaah…and you were doin so well ’til you lost it femboy.

"femboy" hehe! good one. that hurts about as much as when I was called "bicycle boy" I’m a femboy! I’m a femboy! owee owee Suck suck C’mon gurls…Vegstate has earned a little stroking. Pay up gurls…he’s earned it.

damn straight! where’s the stroking? oh wait. "gurls" were never mentioned, were they? Just "whining rapees". Non gender specific, if you ask me. Nobody thought this had anything to do with gender until just now! I see myself as being more of a "peoplist" than a feminist. however, I am the father of a daughter. * Sent from RemarQ http://www.remarq.com The Internet’s Discussion Network * The fastest and easiest way to search and participate in Usenet – Free!

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Christy can’t ignore it cos theres an element of truth in it. he’s nice that way..if a little naive. Brian

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x-no-archive:yes You say things that don’t need to be said and shouldn’t be said. There was no reason to say this.

Thats my call dear. Brian

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cus it never stops happening. it doesnt happen once and never again. its never going to stop. cus theres assholes out there like you.

Thar ya go Panster….makin generalisations. I have never even looked at a woman rapaciously in my life. Never had to really.All the women in my life gave it up wholeheartedly. And guess what…if they had’nt I would have accepted that cheerfully. You must stop knitting your personal hurt into a scarf and then trodding on it. Brian

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Cold pizza depresses me but I don’t go on about it ad infinauseum. Nor do I blame every friggin male pizza chef for my woes. :0)

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – thats all I can hear from the whining rapees in here. oh my. I uh… hmmm… you suck. and I’m picturing all the "whining rapees" here having you in a room for a bit and you deserving every pounding you get. several of these "whining rapees" here are some of my best friends. I know its not whats being said but thats the way I’m hearing it. that’s your fault, me boyo. Why do you all hold on so tightly to your rape. you better start holding on tightly to something else. I reckon its a kind of security blanket….a treasured thumb to be sucked on at will. This attitude does’nt help. but you do. ooh… I’m just getting madder now. yeah, I know you posted this just to be controversial and to draw out enraged reactions. but… geez you’re mean. mean is never good. Brian rapist but for the therapy. that must be the new "asshole" therapy I’ve heard so much about.

…aaah…and you were doin so well ’til you lost it femboy. Suck suck C’mon gurls…Vegstate has earned a little stroking. Pay up gurls…he’s earned it. :0)

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maybe, maybe not…is’nt it interesting that you assume I have’nt. Only a woman…oh the precious pain of being A WOMAN. Go Ricky Go Ricky :0)

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Why do you have to be so rude? ~Lady Angela

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – x-no-archive: yes why can’t you digest that maybe the way you’re hearing things is so whacked that it’s offensive and disrespectful and shouldn’t be posted at all? your attitude doesn’t help. did I hear a squeak? take it to alt.support.rape.victim.in.perpetuum :0)

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x-no-archive: yes thats all I can hear from the whining rapees in here. I know its not whats being said but thats the way I’m hearing it. Then why don’t you try getting a hearing aid? Brian rapist but for the therapy. Well, I guess you can hold onto that for *your* security blanket. Dumbass.

Go Ricky Go Ricky :0)

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x-no-archive: yes why can’t you digest that maybe the way you’re hearing things is so whacked that it’s offensive and disrespectful and shouldn’t be posted at all? your attitude doesn’t help.

did I hear a squeak? take it to alt.support.rape.victim.in.perpetuum :0)

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Fuck you.

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Hello, Thanks for letting me know…I’m alright ~Lady Angela

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – …..I’m sorry I must be confused, I thought this support group was here for everyone to talk about depression, things that make us depressed, etc…. ~Lady Angela It is indeed. The person you replied to, Brian/JTfan, often relieves his depression by posting things in the newsgroup to offend and hurt other people. That’s his style. And he changes the name and address under which he posts frequently (here it’s ObstreperO, later it’ll be something else), so killfiles don’t work so well. The venom he throws out is hard to just ignore, but that’s all I can recommend to you. -c — Chris Metzler Work Address: Harvard-Smithsonian Center 617-496-3259 (office) for Astrophysics (remove "snip-me." to email, of course) Cambridge, MA 02138 USA "As a child I understood how to give; I have forgotten this grace since I have become civilized." – Chief Luther Standing Bear

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…..I’m sorry I must be confused, I thought this support group was here for everyone to talk about depression, things that make us depressed, etc…. ~Lady Angela

It is indeed. The person you replied to, Brian/JTfan, often relieves his depression by posting things in the newsgroup to offend and hurt other people. That’s his style. And he changes the name and address under which he posts frequently (here it’s ObstreperO, later it’ll be something else), so killfiles don’t work so well. The venom he throws out is hard to just ignore, but that’s all I can recommend to you. -c — Chris Metzler Work Address: Harvard-Smithsonian Center 617-496-3259 (office) for Astrophysics (remove "snip-me." to email, of course) Cambridge, MA 02138 USA "As a child I understood how to give; I have forgotten this grace since I have become civilized." – Chief Luther Standing Bear

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