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Between stands left and right I care not. Middle I care not either though was tagged on me. I just wish there was soemthign more in this dang ng than the friggen righteousness of the blind. I wish that there was no righteousness of the seer either:) That there woudlbe somethign other than side with seing, side with blind, side with pastries, side with wine, side with grouos, side with loners, side with balck or side with white side with anything  but for ehaven;s sajke side:):) I have a life that si not having a hoot todo with any of that. Hello, My name is Chloe. I am in convalescence or am supposed to be since three eyars but the very fact I was ill and incapable of working then made my life be a tstress of racing for bills, and hoping fto catch up some day to finally have the convalsecence:). But meanwhile, I red, I walked while I could, I sang a lot, I painted, I watched tv, I saw many people that wondered how I coud be happy anyway with it all, and they took strenght in that, just seing that one coudl be happy and that then they coudl to. But in fact I donlt live focussing on happiness or on unhapiness or on black or on white, I just tend to not think of things in opposition. I embrace the moment, and do not make it opposition to anything. It however sems a rare thing where people live in opposition, ranking each other as who is the best, the tallest, the strongest, starting at age 4 compraing "My dad is stronger than your dad" -oh YEAH, WAIT TILLi GET MY TWO BIG BRTOHTERS, THEY ARE STRONGER THAN YOUR DAD". Ooops for caps. I donlt oppose caps to lower case either LOL:) Thsi palnet and its human inhabitants are a puzzle. They make themnselves and others klive what seems to be ever so compliavted…Yet, runnign after biklls and a convalsecence I know, is not simple. But They seem to call on them complications…To set themself as the oen that will say "This is in the middle" or "This is to the right" and label things that way as per th4eir measure of where they decide it oughta be betwen two extremes and opposites. But things are not existing as per opposites at all. Events ignore opposotes. They just occur. They donlt say "Let;s occur and make this person lieve some other extreme". They just happen. And yet… Seems humans need to give it a rank, a number, a prioroty level, a color of tag:), a label, a category, a drawer to fit it under in the place it shoudl alphabetically, numerically, aplphanumercially. Sees liek they need to reduce the world to their nderstanding of it. As if their understanding couldc contain the world…ya know…Like how do they even fot "TOKYO" in order and rank of its own in their understanding?L:) And oh, how can they make TOKYO forst say and New York last otr middle? Searhc me. Seems they link their reduction to connectiosn they make. Like if they one day met a guy from denmark they did not like, denmark is then put on the bad extreme on the map of their world reduction system or somthtign like that. I dunno. Just so weird they are in thinkignt hey can put a world in their head in priorities and then stamp their feet wanting tohter s to go by their own order, each of them, or else they call them names, is the treend. Woudld soemoen say "I met a guy from denmark, and I think Denmark is the coolest country", they coudl argue…But find to agree at least about being on the same mode otfthinking: opposites are part of a same opposising way of living life… But of one said "I met a guy from Denmark once" and nothign more, they go then "So???? Are you sayign Denmark is not on the map? Is that what you are saying? It is, I like denmkark, and I agree with Manuella that hates it! But you, you, you disgraceful thing! How coudl I ever agree with youl you are not either lijking nor hating Denmark, and you eyt met a guy from there!!!!!!". Ad if you ask "What’s it got to do with my feeligns about Denmark??? How is that supposed to make me feel anythign about Denmark?? It si not Denmark I met, but a guy from Denmark. I enever went to Denmark, I coudl not say a thihg then about my feelings for it. I just know it is on a map, somewehre in Europe. Does nto make it be a good Denmark or a bad Denmark for that much! How do you coem to such conclusions??? You make connections in your ehad that are very strange to me….I dontl think in that sort of way…" They then would say "Oh, you always want to be right" and I woudl tend to reply "Ermm…What connection did you make this time to conclude that?" but they would dsee that if I figure one of thair cionnected sedimented past connection results, in a way that woudl in their eyes confirm that I woudl want to be right…Arghhh! So plepopel make their life ever so complicated. Me, well. When I drink a ciup of coffee, I drink that cup. And I know it. And if I know there are many cups and much more coffee and many more people drinkiing coffee and that donlt drink coffee, soem that drink it in a bowl, or in a mug, I just still only drink the dang cup I drink, taste the one I taste, enjoy that cup or spit it out if I donlt:), but what’s that got to do with comparing with all possibel cooffee cups drank or not when in the world???? I imagine some having coffee… -Ewww, deah…This coffee is better than my mother’s. But it is worse than my sister’s! -Yeas, darling, I woudl say it is somewehre between my boss’s coffee and the vending machine"… -Oh, I disagree with you completely. -Really? -Yes. You boss’s coffee is not a criteria that si one of the tweo opposites we divide the cpoffee world under…. -Well, I think I find his coffee the best in the world. -Then we can agree it is a 3 onthe reichter scale of coffee tastebuds? -Oh, you sue a scale of 1 to 10? Is that it? Hm. I would say this is rather clsoer to the 6. -Six!….Let me taste it again….Perhaps 4… -Oh, allow me to try a nd see where it belongs between those two opposites on the same line of tastebuds….(Schurp)…My, this is less lukewarm than my dishwater, but it is more lukewarm than what temperature I baith my babies in! -Oh, my…Are you saying you wash your babies in lukewrm water? -There is lukewarm and lukewarm. -And where abouts on a scale of 1 to 10 woudl you say that lukewarm is lukewarm then? -Well, more lukewarm than my babyie’s tub water, but less than my dishwater… -Wpudl you say it is as lukewarm as …as…rain? -As lukewarm rain…? -Yes? -Oh, a bit more lukewarm than that! -I agree!! -Oh, we are friends! Where people on thisnplanet seem to do that while I am up to my sth cup of coffee, not lukewarm, hot, and wrote trhee more chapters of a thesis. Gawd, the poeple they compliate things for nothing. How about if they just went: -Coffee! Yum. -Yum? Blergh. -Yum -Blregh! -YUM!!!!! -BLERGHHHHHHHH! ??? That woudl eb opposition again. Poeple they need to oopose all the time in their mode of thinking. Good OR bad. Right OR wrong. Nice OR nmasty. White OR black. American OR ROTF (rest of the world:)). They never realte saying "Hi, I like coffee." and the other answers "Hi. I’m in a hospital". cause instead of just blabbing about what they can do to say they think alike, hey, they coudl happen to exchange and learn about each other….They can;t do that, poeple, it seems. Like Hi! I am white. -Hi. I am in a hurry.Why are you white? -I dunno. Why are you in a hurry? -I am late for school. -I see. I was having breakfast -Shall we then talk later? -See you! Ther. No opposition. One talked about being late for school, the other about having breakky. They talked about being white, and aboutnbeing in a hurry. They did not try and make a link and connect as follows. though if those were two people  from this planet, this is what they woudl think after they hung up. "Hm. He said he was in a hurry right after I said I was white. Bectha he is prejudiced. When I asked him wehy he was in a hurry though, instead of sayign "I am prejudiced" (reducing the wporld to one;s connectint mode (sigh)), he answered he was late for school. He probably thinks I think he is an ignorant, and therefore he wanted to say he was intelligent, and knoweldgeable and still going to school. When I said I was having breakfast, he did not ecven ask me what I was eating. He then said he woudl talk later, whoch shows he really is prejudiced and found my having breakfast the perfect excuse to hang up! And I am sure he thinks I never noticed! Hah! So batant it was to me!!! Can;t fool me about his real intentions!!" While the othe one thinks after they hung up: -Geez…First thign she says is "I am white". A whole civil declaration just like that. Betcha she’s a feminitsst too. They walk around making statements of the kind, those. And when I answered to that I was in a hurry, she cared nothing about my own time and being late. She went on saying "I am having breakfast". Yep, again a statement. Must be a feminist all right. Can;t fool me! Too blatant in how when I asked if we coudl talk again later, she said "Later". Just oen word….She is bossy and has nothng but hatred of men!" Lordy lordy how they make things complicated…. Oh well. That is how it seems they exchange. They exchange on lines…. Like you must say soemthign and say where it belongs onthe line that you must guess they connected to? And if you say "I like the taste of coffee. I am having breakfast, btw"….Lord knows what that will eman in their connecting and reducing the world and what label that will get them to stick on your back….:) People…Theya re so weird….:)

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(((((((Chloe))))))) Sent via Deja.com http://www.deja.com/ Before you buy.

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Hello Pam & Chloe, excuse me for jumping in but I see wise words from Pam and I have to support her words. Chloe, please do not respond to post that make you angry or upset immediately. Read it a few times and with a clear mind and love in your heart, then answer it if you want. By then I am sure, you will feel that you do not need to waste too much of your energy proving yourself. I speak for myself as always here, whenever I read a post and the content, I can most times, see what is going on. Lots of it are just miscommunication, words taken in the wrong view as written, disagreements on a point of view, etc. > many care here.. however some perhaps forget everyone needs hope..

I agree to this, we need reminding now and again to help us find what we want in life. > Many worlds.. many concepts.. however.  the draw or the magnet.. is the word > that stands out tall and clear..

(((((HUGS))))) to both of you and anyone that needs it. — sunshine aka Tina **************************************************** A mind is like a parachute, it works best when it is open.

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Thank you Tina.. Pamela, the human side, not the computer,  not the supporter, not the *peacemaker*… just the lonely side…. needed some support somewhere too.. Pamela sunshine <tc…@singnet.com.sg> wrote in message

news:7ur83p$37$1@clematis.singnet.com.sg… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Hello Pam & Chloe, > excuse me for jumping in but I see wise words from Pam and I have to support > her words. > Chloe, please do not respond to post that make you angry or upset > immediately. Read it a few times and with a clear mind and love in your > heart, then answer it if you want. By then I am sure, you will feel that you > do not need to waste too much of your energy proving yourself. > I speak for myself as always here, whenever I read a post and the content, I > can most times, see what is going on. Lots of it are just miscommunication, > words taken in the wrong view as written, disagreements on a point of view, > etc. > > many care here.. however some perhaps forget everyone needs hope.. > I agree to this, we need reminding now and again to help us find what we > want in life. > > Many worlds.. many concepts.. however.  the draw or the magnet.. is the > word > > that stands out tall and clear.. > (((((HUGS))))) to both of you and anyone that needs it. > — > sunshine aka Tina > **************************************************** > A mind is like a parachute, > it works best when it is open.

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>From: bc…@FreeNet.Carleton.CA  (Eleonore Beaudoin) >Date: Thu, 21 October 1999 12:59 PM EDT >Between stands left and right I care not. >Middle I care not either though was tagged on me.

Well written. So so written. Badly written. Or maybe JUST WRITTEN. THANKS

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Chloe.. You are still the same woman inside that you were before the disability.. kay.. many care here.. however some perhaps forget everyone needs hope.. Loneliness or disability or self pity is not a *focus or a defense of response* here at ASL… Healing the loneliness is.. that is the fact.. learning and moving forward past it is the *key* even if some.. or even yourself as well as me also.. do not always *give support* correctly and as perceived by others.. we are all human.. and none of us are totally straight.. we are all a little tilted.. kay.. Many worlds.. many concepts.. however.  the draw or the magnet.. is the word that stands out tall and clear.. LONELINESS.. it brought us all here. bottom line.. even thine enemies.. they too are lonely… they  too .. need healed.. they would not be here if it was within them the strength to heal it in themselves.. Deep breath.. move on.. forward.. grow from past.. into the future..let the negatives perceived go.. ignore them..they are not born of you.. but of others.. you can  not change or control their  responses.. you can however control how it affects you.. and your life as you live it.. tis up to you to change your sensitivity to it.. and if some do not respond as you wish.. move past them.. ignore their posts.. let go of the need to be accepted by those who would cut you or call you names born of Troll.. for maybe they are not capable of accepting you.. and when you become agitated.. or  hurt.. you do not think clearly.. much like many others who are more like you than they know or will ever except within the reflection of a looking glass.. You know I have not supported as you wish your emails, nor have I supported any other..  however.. I would hope.. before you reply or post.. you read this for 24 hours.. and then.. see if you can understand what I say… basic and honest and baseline reality.. for sudden responses.. are not always appropriately read.. and I would wish you would not read in just the negatives.. as well as the others here.. who do not wish to resolve or give you support as if you were just like any other..  for Chloe.. you are unique.. as are they.. and in the world of many.. not everyone can get along.. even on an NG.. Everybody.. I hope.. I believe..I wish.. I dream.. I pray..  peace… and see my words of support as simply this.. support of another who is lonely.. read them as face value.. born of my own opinion.. and the real world in which we all seek to be.. whole and part of again.. or for the first time in our lives.. simply accepted for the within… I do not damn one.. I do not support another.. however.. support means this.. *Support* when requested.. is given.. period.. end of sentence in my opinion.. Pamela Eleonore Beaudoin <bc…@FreeNet.Carleton.CA> wrote in message

news:7ungps$3f1@freenet-news.carleton.ca… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Between stands left and right I care not. > Middle I care not either though was tagged on me. > I just wish there was soemthign more in this dang ng than > the friggen righteousness of the blind. > I wish that there was no righteousness of the seer either:) > That there woudlbe somethign other than side with seing, > side with blind, side with pastries, side with wine, side > with grouos, side with loners, side with balck or side with > white side with anything  but for ehaven;s sajke side:):) > I have a life that si not having a hoot todo with any of that. > Hello, > My name is Chloe. > I am in convalescence or am supposed to be since three eyars > but the very fact I was ill and incapable of working then > made my life be a tstress of racing for bills, and hoping > fto catch up some day to finally have the convalsecence:). > But meanwhile, I red, I walked while I could, I sang a lot, > I painted, I watched tv, I saw many people that wondered how > I coud be happy anyway with it all, and they took strenght > in that, just seing that one coudl be happy and that then > they coudl to. > But in fact I donlt live focussing on happiness or on > unhapiness or on black or on white, I just tend to not think > of things in opposition. > I embrace the moment, and do not make it opposition to anything. > It however sems a rare thing where people live in > opposition, ranking each other as who is the best, the > tallest, the strongest, starting at age 4 compraing "My dad > is stronger than your dad" -oh YEAH, WAIT TILLi GET MY TWO > BIG BRTOHTERS, THEY ARE STRONGER THAN YOUR DAD". > Ooops for caps. I donlt oppose caps to lower case either LOL:) > Thsi palnet and its human inhabitants are a puzzle. They > make themnselves and others klive what seems to be ever so > compliavted…Yet, runnign after biklls and a convalsecence > I know, is not simple. But They seem to call on them > complications…To set themself as the oen that will say > "This is in the middle" or "This is to the right" and label > things that way as per th4eir measure of where they decide > it oughta be betwen two extremes and opposites. > But things are not existing as per opposites at all. Events > ignore opposotes. They just occur. They donlt say "Let;s > occur and make this person lieve some other extreme". They > just happen. > And yet… > Seems humans need to give it a rank, a number, a prioroty > level, a color of tag:), a label, a category, a drawer to > fit it under in the place it shoudl alphabetically, > numerically, aplphanumercially. Sees liek they need to > reduce the world to their nderstanding of it. As if their > understanding couldc contain the world…ya know…Like how > do they even fot "TOKYO" in order and rank of its own in > their understanding?L:) > And oh, how can they make TOKYO forst say and New York last > otr middle? > Searhc me. Seems they link their reduction to connectiosn > they make. Like if they one day met a guy from denmark they > did not like, denmark is then put on the bad extreme on the > map of their world reduction system or somthtign like that. > I dunno. Just so weird they are in thinkignt hey can put a > world in their head in priorities and then stamp their feet > wanting tohter s to go by their own order, each of them, or > else they call them names, is the treend. Woudld soemoen say > "I met a guy from denmark, and I think Denmark is the > coolest country", they coudl argue…But find to agree at > least about being on the same mode otfthinking: opposites > are part of a same opposising way of living life… > But of one said "I met a guy from Denmark once" and nothign > more, they go then "So???? Are you sayign Denmark is not on > the map? Is that what you are saying? It is, I like > denmkark, and I agree with Manuella that hates it! But you, > you, you disgraceful thing! How coudl I ever agree with youl > you are not either lijking nor hating Denmark, and you eyt > met a guy from there!!!!!!". > Ad if you ask "What’s it got to do with my feeligns about > Denmark??? How is that supposed to make me feel anythign > about Denmark?? It si not Denmark I met, but a guy from > Denmark. I enever went to Denmark, I coudl not say a thihg > then about my feelings for it. I just know it is on a map, > somewehre in Europe. Does nto make it be a good Denmark or a > bad Denmark for that much! How do you coem to such > conclusions??? You make connections in your ehad that are > very strange to me….I dontl think in that sort of way…" > They then would say "Oh, you always want to be right" and I > woudl tend to reply "Ermm…What connection did you make > this time to conclude that?" but they would dsee that if I > figure one of thair cionnected sedimented past connection > results, in a way that woudl in their eyes confirm that I > woudl want to be right…Arghhh! > So plepopel make their life ever so complicated. > Me, well. When I drink a ciup of coffee, I drink that cup. > And I know it. And if I know there are many cups and much > more coffee and many more people drinkiing coffee and that > donlt drink coffee, soem that drink it in a bowl, or in a > mug, I just still only drink the dang cup I drink, taste the > one I taste, enjoy that cup or spit it out if I donlt:), but > what’s that got to do with comparing with all possibel > cooffee cups drank or not when in the world???? > I imagine some having coffee… > -Ewww, deah…This coffee is better than my mother’s. But it > is worse than my sister’s! > -Yeas, darling, I woudl say it is somewehre between my > boss’s coffee and the vending machine"… > -Oh, I disagree with you completely. > -Really? > -Yes. You boss’s coffee is not a criteria that si one of the > tweo opposites we divide the cpoffee world under…. > -Well, I think I find his coffee the best in the world. > -Then we can agree it is a 3 onthe reichter scale of coffee > tastebuds? > -Oh, you sue a scale of 1 to 10? Is that it? Hm. I would say > this is rather clsoer to the 6. > -Six!….Let me taste it again….Perhaps 4… > -Oh, allow me to try a nd see where it belongs between those > two opposites on the same line of > tastebuds….(Schurp)…My, this is less lukewarm than my > dishwater, but it is more lukewarm than what temperature I > baith my babies in! > -Oh, my…Are you saying you wash your babies in lukewrm water? > -There is lukewarm and lukewarm. > -And where abouts on a scale of 1 to 10 woudl you say that > lukewarm is lukewarm then? > -Well, more lukewarm than my babyie’s tub water, but less > than my dishwater… > -Wpudl you say it is as lukewarm as …as…rain? > -As lukewarm rain…? > -Yes? > -Oh, a bit more lukewarm than that! > -I agree!! > -Oh, we are friends! > Where people on thisnplanet seem to do that while I am up to > my sth cup of coffee, not lukewarm, hot, and wrote trhee > more chapters of a thesis. > Gawd, the poeple they compliate things for nothing. > How about if they just went: > -Coffee! Yum. > -Yum? Blergh. > -Yum > -Blregh! > -YUM!!!!! > -BLERGHHHHHHHH! > ??? > That woudl eb opposition again.

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